Sunday, 8 March 2015

What Makes Your Man Respect a You.‎(Part A).



"Ignoring a man's disrespect is the surest guarantee it will continue."—Rhonda Cort.


Hello friends, it's been a long while on the blog. So much has taken my time but I'm excited to be back again, and today I will be having a little chit-chat with the ladies in the house for the next few days. I hope we learn from each other. Please feel free to drop your comments and I will respond. You can join the discussion on WOMAN OF WORTH FOUNDATION Group. 

So here we go...



Love and respect should go hand in hand. He is supposed to love you and you are suppose to respect him. However, too many women aren't finding love because they haven't found respect. Many things go into gaining respect from a man. Men respect the women they love. Most men do not love women they can not respect. The definition of respect in Merriam Webster's dictionary is to consider worthy of high or special regard.

Respect Yourself

The best way to earn respect from anyone is to respect yourself. Confucius said "Respect yourself and others will respect you." Dostoevsky said "If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self respect will you compel others to respect you." Men respect women who love and respect themselves. Holding yourself and your life in high regard is a great way to demonstrate respect for yourself. Set high standards for yourself and do not make choices that are disrespectful to the life you want and who you want to be.

‎The Authentic Woman.

Men love women who are authentic and feminine. They like to be the man and pursue. Being true to yourself and not trying to act the way you think a man wants you to act will allow a man to really respect you for who you are. Men don't need women to be like them to get respect, they need women to be like a woman. This doesn't mean you can not be an intelligent, hard-working, out-going or even participate in sports. It just means you should still be a woman in relation to men.

Say No To Sex.‎

Believe it or not, as much as men want to have sex with you, when you give in while dating, you often lose huge respect points. Men need to fall in love with you, " They need to get to know you.

Tell The Truth‎

Honesty and integrity are keys to getting respect form anyone. Never lie. A man can not respect you if he can not trust you. It is also key not to subtly lie by portraying yourself in a way that gives the wrong impression. If you are looking for a relationship, tell the truth. If he isn't looking for one, don't waste your time or his by continuing to engage with him and giving him the wrong idea.

Word Power‎

M‎en feel contempt when they are criticized and they feel disrespected themselves, and therefore can not feel respect or love at that time. Understand the power of your words and don't underestimate them. Always come from a place of kindness, respect and love when dealing with people and you will get the same in return.

Conclusion

Respect is earned through your behavior.When mistakes are made, amends must be made as well. When you are acting out of love and respect for yourself and others, love and respect will be given to you, and if it isn't, just remember some men are narcissists and they can not give respect to anyone. These men should be avoided.‎


Friday, 8 August 2014

Encouragement For Single Moms



Choose to live regret free.
Sure you maybe should never have gotten
with that man in the first place and now
you have a child by him. 

Though the circumstance in which the child was
conceived was not ideal, it is God who
is the author of life so the child is a blessing
with a purpose and a God-ordained destiny
and you should feel honored to have the
privilege to raise a warrior for Jesus in the
fear and admonition of the Lord. 
No condemnation as you "go and sin no more"
(John 8:11) while committing to God to wait
until after marriage before you ever have sex again. 

Ask God to show you how to raise your child
while still involving the father in that child's life
for he is the father and has a major role to play in
that child's growth and development.

As long as you learn from every thing in the road which may have resulted in a wrong
decision and ask God to help you along the way - He will
surely honor your request and turn any mess into a
message and make a testimony out of your test.

You intended to harm me, but God intended it for
good to accomplish what is now being done, the
saving of many lives. Genesis 50:20

...And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn
thee: go, and sin no more.  John 8:11
 

Wednesday, 6 August 2014

God I feel so lonely...

It's okay to cry out to God. 
 
It's okay to cry, be honest and scram, "God,
I feel lonely, and I don't like it!"

He wants you to come to Him. 

What loving father would deny his child the right
to come to him with a problem? 

However, God doesn't want you to leave His presence
feeling the same way that you came.

He wants you to trust Him.

He wants you to trust Him with your life.

He wants you to realize that, right now, He's all the man you
need and that He knows what's best for you. 

He's not denying you anything; He's preparing you for His best. 
He simply wants you to trust Him with your life. 

And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: 
for thou, Lord, hast not forsaken them that seek thee. 
Psalm 9:10

Offer the sacrifices of righteousness, and put your
trust in the Lord.  Psalm 4:5

Thursday, 17 July 2014

BREAKING NEWS: Malaysian passenger plane crashes in Ukraine near Russian border

A Malaysian passenger airliner with 295 people on board crashed in Ukraine near the Russian border, Interfax cited an aviation industry source as saying on Thursday.

It said the Boeing plane was flying from Amsterdam to Kuala Lumpur. 

Source: Reuters

Wednesday, 7 May 2014

2014 World Cup: Yobo, Odemwingie, Joel Obi make 30-man squad – See full list



Super Eagles handler Stephen Keshi, has included the trio of Osaze Odemwingie, Joseph Yobo and Joel Obi, in his 30-man provisional squad for the 2014 World Cup.

The list was made public on Tuesday evening by Paul Bassey, who is a member of the Technical Committee of the Nigeria Football Federation (NFF).

All invited players are expected to report in camp on May 26, before Keshi compiles his final list of 23 players that will represent Nigeria in Brazil this summer.


See the full list below:

Goal Keepers – Vincent Enyeama, Austin Ejide, Chigozie Agbim (Gombe Utd), Daniel Akpeyi (Warri Wolves).

Defenders – Elderson Echiejile, Juwon Oshaniwa, Efe Ambrose, Godfrey Oboabona, Azubuike Egwuekwe (Warri Wolves), Kenneth Omeruo, Joseph Yobo, Kunle Odunlami (Sunshine Stars).

Midfielders – John Mikel Obi, Ogenyi Onazi, Ramon Azeez, Ejike Uzoenyi (Rangers Int’l), Sunday Mba, Gabriel Rueben, Nosa Igiebor, Joel Obi, Michael Uchebo.

Attackers – Ahmed Musa, Shola Ameobi, Victor Moses, Emanuel Emenike, Victor Nsofor, Osaze Odemwingie, Michael Babatunde, Nnamdi Oduamadi, Nwofor Uche.



I am tired of having children, Annie needs me more — 2face



2face Idibia recently declared that he was tired of having babies and that he wants to concentrate on his marriage to Annie, the mother of his last two children.

According to the music star, it was time for him to give more time to his wife and ensure that the family gets the best of his attention as they continue to grow together.

He stated this last weekend at Gbenga Adeyinka’s Laffmatazz in Ibadan, after performing his hit tracks at the show.

While performing, he frequently used spiritual words like “receive it”, “take it” and when asked if the words he was saying on the stage ironically means that he was planning to have more children, he was quick to deny the insinuation with a declaration that he was done as far as having babies is concerned.


“I am tired of having babies. At this point in my life, I want to show my family all the love and support they deserve. I love my wife and there is not going to be anything like have babies outside wedlock.

All I need to do now is to show love to my family and friends who stood by me over the years”, he said.



I revealed those behind Boko Haram to Jonathan – Maharaj Ji



The Spiritual Leader of One Love Family, Satguru Maharaj Ji, has said that he had revealed the sponsors of the sect to President Goodluck Jonathan two years ago.

Guru who recently declared that both sponsors of the group and those behind the April 14 bombing at Nyanya Park in Abuja that claimed scores of lives would face repercussions of their action before the end of October.

In an interview with Daily Independent, the spiritualist said “I had told President Goodluck Jonathan those behind these nest of killers (Boko Haram) through several publications.”


“I have asked the President to arrest them before now because they said after the 2011 general elections that because power did not return to the North, they would make the nation ungovernable.

“The spirit of the creator is against them. They are going to be dealt with. I will call them to order in the interest of innocent Nigerians, enough of the bloodletting.

“If President Jonathan had listened to the advice I gave him two years ago when I was at Aso Rock, all the killings by Boko Haram would have stopped. After my visit to the villa, the bombings stopped but because those in government did not continue to tap from my spiritual grace, the bombers returned.

“Nigeria belongs to all of us. As Living Perfect Master, I cannot be here and all these continue. I am challenging the Northern leaders to an open debate on a national television.

“Let them swear by the name of the Creator and all the seven elements of the earth that their actions were not the direct reflection of Boko Haram onslaught.”